Families of people laid to rest in graves vulnerable to coastal erosion say that a lack of decision over how to address the problem is causing them unnecessary distress about the eternal homes of their loved ones.
The council have identified three burial grounds in the communities of Happisburgh, Trimingham, and Mundesley as being at risk of being engulfed by the sea in the coming decades.
A recent report on the issue sets out a series of possible actions, from taking no action to exhuming remains and relocating them in more secure sites. Authorities maintain it is for local people to determine how to move forward.
“At the moment we’re in a state of uncertainty. It causes me distress. My parents intended this to be their final resting place, but it won't be because of the sea.”
Projections indicate at least part of one churchyard could be claimed by the sea in the next 80 years, but some residents worry it will happen far earlier. “I think it’s got under 20 years, if you consider what’s occurred in the last 30 years,” one said.
A local business owner recalled a childhood visit to the neighbouring settlement of Eccles, which has largely disappeared into the sea, including its church and graveyard.
“You could see people’s bones,” she said. “Some have this idealized notion that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. That is not the case. People will take bones as mementos and go grave robbing in search of valuables. It’s completely undignified.”
“I’m worried that the identical fate that befell at Eccles will occur here and there’ll be skeletons on the beach. I’d be disgusted by that.”
Along the coast is situated the grave of a former paratrooper killed while working abroad. His mother expressed she lost sleep after learning her child's final plot might one day be relocated.
“It truly trouble me to consider this may not remain his lasting resting place,” she said. “For us it’s an significant site to visit.”
She believes, new interments should stop but says it is too soon to disturb current plots. “My preference for now is to take no action and watch carefully, but an early decision must be made when a tipping point has been attained.”
The lack of agreement over the timing and method to handle the problem has resulted in bereaved families feeling exasperated and anxious.
Some are calling for additional coastal protections to delay the inevitable erosion and to allow burials to continue for now. Different voices contend the time for relocation is drawing near.
“The situation is very emotive,” a family member stated. “The official study was thorough, but now there’s confusion about how it is implemented. And everybody is washing their hands over who is responsible.”
A coastal manager confirmed the graveyards were under the care of the church authorities. “Ultimately it is down to them to choose the direction to take. Our role is here to assist them through that process with residents.”
He added there was ample time to consider all the options. “We are talking many years before it begins getting lost.”
“Currently, there exists no common view on what should be done yet. It requires good local conversations to find the right answers for each village.”
The prospect of losing the historic sites was labeled one of “immense sadness for the area,” but faith leaders also referenced a doctrine in life after death, offering a spiritual viewpoint on the physical disappearance of sacred ground.